Is all I ever asked but what you don't understand
Is I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on the blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya
Listen babe, I would go through all this pain
Take a bullet straight through my brain
Yes I would die for ya, baby
But you won't do the same
Bruno Mars couldn't have said it any better, this is exactly what most of us put ourselves through. We stay in bad relationship to long . We ,and yes I’m going to say we because once or twice i9 have made myself a victim to heart breaks. We as women live off of memories , what was once a good thing that gone bad, but we wait around for this change that may never come. We just know and want him to change so bad, we know that a man will only change when he is ready, but most of us don't want him to be happy with someone else , when we put up with so much and waited so long for the change. Now why does the next women deserve the good side off him, the side i was waiting for to come. Or maybe he will never change and now the next women has to deal with his bull shit and that burden off you. But it takes a lot for us to admit to this or realize that the whole time we were wasting out time. I know i wasted 10 years of my life with the wrong men. Waiting around for this change, while making myself into a different person. I was hurt so bad that i was pushed myself so far from Love that i lost my feelings in the mist of everything. We learn to live off of what i call the good first 3 months. They are the months where he wine and dine you, sent you flowers , do little dumb shit that matters. Made passionate love and fuck you like you never been fucked before. But as time goes on and that shit slowly stop,we still live off those memories of what use to be. If the flowers stopped and the passionate sex becomes just sex, and your not as happy as you use to be. Maybe the relationship isn't worth the fight . but we as women tend to deal and put up with too much , and as times goes on your making yourself more miserable, to the point where you can be laying right next to him and still feel alone. We have to learn how to let go of a relationship before it becomes too bad . i would love to still have a good relationship with my exes but i stayed in the relationship so long and dealt with so much. Now i hate my ex and want nothing to do with him. But if we would of just giving up when we both knew it wasn't working maybe we would still be friends to this very day. A lot of women put up with too much , if he cheats and you stay , he will continue to cheat, and he may become more bold with it . because now he knows that you re “Oh so Faithful and ain't going nowhere” , so he is going to do him.when you come to the point were you have to check his emails, phone log,and his every move, where is the Trust? A relationship can not last without Trust.i don't know about you but I don't feel like all the extra work just to be “ happy” in a relationship. The man for you is out there, and maybe the guy your with right now ain't him. Stop taking these bum ass no good men back. Because all your doing is digging a deeper hole to get out of. Sometimes its good to be single and learn to find and love yourself before you give someone your all. Learn your worth , up your standard. And start taking shit from these MEN! If no one tells you I'm going to tell you, your beautiful and I love you! You can always do better!
Xoxo
Muah
I'm living and learn to really Love
Until my next thought!
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